"Our greatest happiness does not depend on the condition of life in which chance has placed us, but is always the result of a good conscience, good health, occupation and freedom in all just pursuits." –Thomas Jefferson
"If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man’s life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility." –Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
Commentary Too many people are focused on their wounds and pain to do this. They rather focus on their hurts and sufferings instead of the pain of another individual. Many rather rehearse their past, than get over their past.